Saturday, 16 May 2015

Man and the Child!





There is this social stupid dogma
that men are not supposed to express their feeling...
Hell with it, just watch them when they are with CHILDREN,
they make the most beautiful picture on perception...
And, they would notice, how expressive that SILENT CHILD is!
For all those beautiful hearts,
who are senty fools like any of US
and whose silent bubbling happiness makes the loudest noise!
Good morning...
wishing all CHILD that survive in US a HAPPY-FUN-FILLED Life!


What is this about boys, guys or men being a child! At times, you just have to know how a man feel when they are surrounded with children. They are sensitive and loving, like any of the girls who claim to have motherly feeling or as such there is no doubt when it comes to expressing through words we rule! To start with, I came across one of my close friend who got a spike, because the child with whom he had gone to the salon, insisted on his having a spike too, which he had never ever attempted at...reminded me of Vodafone Haircut Funny Ad. It made me glad that he succumbed to the wish of the child, which had left him happy and was infectious. He was bubbling with happiness, when he was narrating the whole incident to me and I felt it. They love kids and love to be around them. Boys are in fact more sensitive than girls, and the only problem is that we girl express it, while boys don’t because that’s the social dogma that has been attached to it, or they have never known how? My brother, who is extremely shy and reserved as a person, loves his children and I have seen his silent admiration for his kids. I have seen that love in his eyes. He is not expressive, but his body language speaks a volume as to how he feels for his children, and as I say so my eyes are full of tears.  Then there is one of my closest friend husbands, who do the best job when he is around his kid. In fact, it wouldn’t be exaggerating if I say he is more patient, than the mother herself at times! My father, brother, my friends whom I know and just try to understand are more sensitive around children. My father is the best, at expressing his feelings because he is simple and doesn’t bother as to what will people think about him when he becomes a child, when with child. He makes the most beautiful picture at home, and in fact everyone at home feels a part of his wholesome happiness, when he is around his grandchildren.
It’s wrong to think or say, that boys, guys or men as such don’t have feelings...  As a sensitive person, I don’t have any biases and most of the time, feel detached with everything around. But, when I feel the silent expressions it overwhelms my heart and fills my eyes with tears… that’s how I feel for everything and everyone around. I am not judging, or differentiating between how a man or woman feels for a child! I am just putting forth how does a man feels when he is around children! It’s just feeling the others person’s emotion and that too with complete understanding and love. Trust me, when you observe it and be in the moment of joy, understanding their silence, you will realize what a child you are yourself! Hats off to all those beautiful souls, who are still a CHILD underneath and growing! Happiness is infectious, spread as much as you can! 

hehehhehe...  


   For all the woman out there, who are wife now, and MOTHER too...remember your Husband is your First Child, who needs equal Care, Attention and Love as any other Child would need, and its not necessarily you have to become the Mother, its as to what ROLE you are playing at that part of the TIME...Women are GREAT with multitasking hands, let's remain one! And, I know you are the ONE! Hats off to all LIVING SOULS who believe in Happiness, Love, Light, Compassion and Peace! Cheers! Clink...hahahahha...

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